I list my marital status the way I do because I was married but lost Kelley to cancer and I don't consider myself "single"! I have been on and off of AA several times because I got tired of receiving comments about posting pics of Kelley was perverted, weird or whatever. But I can never seem to stay away from AA for very long and enjoy old and new friends. To the naysayers, if you have an issue with what I post then simply click off and go somewhere else!!! Just to save time my email is sogaguy4fun@email.com and I'm also on Google Chat so feel free to reach me by either or both. Thanks