According to others.
Most notable physical traits might include: the smile (luckily she knows how to make him use it!), the eyes, his shoulders (slurp!), the accent... Otherwise: same off-beat sense of humor, the never-met-a-stranger and life-of-the-party type, spontaneous (yes, both in and out of bed!), the kind who always sees the glass half-full, indelibly charming (as in, could sell ice to an eskimo)...
I enjoy most everything from mild to wild. The saying pretty much holds true that I will try anything once and twice if we like it! It should go without saying (so don''t ask why I saying it) that a few things are beyond my tastes and a few more are beyond my comprehension.
And I list that I''m a "full-swap" , but that is not a requirement, nor a guarantee :) Insert the little whispering commercial-guy voice here: "Offer remains valid with approved connection. Swinging activities may include, but are not limited to, full-swap, soft-swap, spit-swap or excuse-to-leave swap."
In other words, I just like to play to the extent that everyone is comfortable.
I''m a professional (and not at this!), house-broken, table-mannered, discreet, drug and disease-free, non-smokers.
Just looking for fun, fearless folks that could be friends.
Absolutely, I like to develop friendships with some people who have something in common with me (granted, it will likely be an attitude commonality and not an age one). But I''m aren''t so friend-deprived that you gotta be having weekly BBQs and Christmas dinners with me before ya can see me nekkid ;) Heck, drive an SUV through my part of town when I''m feeling crazy and you might see it without even meeting me!
I prefer the threesome situation, but I''m open to whatever might arise (no pun intended *wink, wink*).
And of course, its goes without saying, that I love to spoil single female or bi-female. ;)
I''m very open-minded and creative, and could get into details with you if that opportunity (and a couple of bottles of wine) are presented. ;)